I get what you are saying, but it's a very contextual word.

it's.. not really

i'm just trying to say there's a very big difference between sex and gender and their meanings are pretty solid
i don't want to make a big fuss out of this at all i just get a little bit offended sometimes about it and i just wish people understood the whole deal better

but i'm not trying to condemn anyone or even sound condescending or anything I'm sorry if it seems that way

Actually you are correct, I suppose I was just being pedantic on how it's used in the scientific community which is still pretty ambiguous but elsewhere that's not really the care anymore.  I will fix my errors for the rest of my time

Man, I don't know poo poo about this feminist bullpoo poo but I can proudly say that I could work as gigolo and easily make 500USD/night banging ladyboys in Bangkok. They find me irresistible due to my youthful and androgynous looks. Every time I entered a night club in Laos, I was swarmed by ladyboys, many of them offering me good money to sleep with them. And if they didn't want to pay, they tried to lure me with a free massage and spa. I could be having constant orgies and make good money if only I weren't such a prude.

get black out drunk next time you go to the club

I usually end up fighting people when I get really, truly blackout drunk. And if you had the chance to see the muscles on some of the ladyboys, there's no way in hell you'd want to fetch with them. My girlfriend's brother/sister beat the poo poo out of a crazy falung when he refused to leave her establishment. I was bracing for a fight when he started acting belligerent but the fight ended so quickly that I didn't even have to get up from my chair. When dealing with southeast Asian ladyboys, you must assume they are deadly & dangerous. They are usually trained in kickboxing.

so my mental image of everyone in SE asia being a ladyboy kickboxer is true?

time to finally buy that one-way plane ticket